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Exist?

The first relationship that I got myself into. Feeling really blessed to have met him, though he might not be the perfect guy to fulfil all above criteria.

It do make me think, am I the one who have been expecting too much for a guy to commit. But these are really what I look into and what girls really need more than having guys with 5Cs but failed to have all these.

Not forgetting the few add-ons to the list:

1. Guys who will insist of sending you home/fetching you to work/back from work regardless of time, location, distance or transport inconveniences or despite having you to turn his offer down.

(It's always the thought that count)

2. Guys who will accept and respect you for who you are. Regardless of how you dressed, with or without make up.

(It means a lot to be accepted and be loved for who you are not who you try to be to be love)

3. Guys who never feel tired to commit or initiate. Respect and cherish all time spent for all dates.

(It mean to the girl that the guy actually wanted to spend his time with you than spending it with anyone else.)

4. Guys who will drop you surprise visits or surprise small little gifts regardless of festivals, events or monthsary/anniversary.

(It do make you feel loved like it's valentine everyday)

Just all these. I'm not sure if these are all too much to ask for. But every girl would definitely want her boy to fulfil all these. They might fail to meet all these at times but at least they try.

Every girl would want a sweet, romantic and most importantly a committed boy to work all these out in their relationship.

I'm still quiet and awkward with him. Tired, is just an excuse to avoid more awkwardness. But sometimes, as much as I wanted to initiate a conversation, it make me feel hard to hold it up and keep the conversation going. And that actually add on to much stress. The main reason is, I never have close relationship with a guy before. And I really don't know what kind of conversation to actually bring it up, and if he seems uninterested in that topic, it just kinda make me feel ... "Why not just keep quiet?" and the silent war begin all the way. That's the sucky part of our date.

I don't see the forever that is in our relationship, I don't know how far would this awkwardness still be in me (what if it takes forever?)

But as much as I still love him, I would never wanna give up trying.

But the problem now is, should I tell him all my criterias on the above? It's not hard to meet, it just requires effort and commitment and that's really the key to make any relationship work.